Do you search more around your B-day?
I just had a question, I was wondering how many adoptees search more around the time of their birthdays? My birthday is going to be tomorrow and it seems I look more on the registries and sites hoping to see someone looking for me. I guess I think that of all days, that will be the day somebody is definitely thinking about me somewhere and they'll try to find me too! But so far, every year, I find nothing and end up wondering if I have been completely forgotten. True enough, I don't know any of the circumstances surrounding my adoption, and it occurred during the 60's when bmoms were told to 'forget', but still, after all of this time I wonder why nobody is looking for me. And on my b-day it just seems to get to me more. I was just wondering if that happens to anybody else.
By the way, I think this site is fantastic and wish I would have found it a long time ago! No one understands what it is like to be an adoptee better than another adoptee and everyone here has been so supportive. Thank you!
Mary Ann
04/21/65
Illinois
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