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Originally posted by dpen6
then ...I question someones decisions to have children. Our needs to parent help the kids ...then there is no problem....if adults needs come first then yes...expect problems.
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Okay this I completely agree with dpen6. Our children's needs DO come before ours. But this is really different I think than what Riley was talking about originally. I don't think she means that the children's needs don't come first. Only that adopting in the first place is not JUST about the child. It's about the parent and the child. There is a difference.
Judy