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Lady Zee & lisalou,
We are trying to help the orginal poster and I think you should go back and read her post again as you seemed to have missed some things.
I'm sure she isn't trying to be offensive, but she is just that when she tells people who don't want to adopt and only want bio children that they are selfish. She shouldn't project her feelings and desires onto them. It's just not right.
Also when you gals actually become adoptive parents you will understand why the statement " Your own children" is offensive. It's saying that bio children are "our Own" but adopted children are "not our own". It's not only an offensive statement but also a false one.
I agree with the other poster who said adoption isn't easy and I hope the original poster does a lot more research before diving into it. Especially if she is planning on adopting through the state. She better know just what she may be in for.
Judy
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