I understand where everyone is coming from because I can relate to how you guys feel (meaning the people who posted)
I am 26 year old and have no biological children of my own. I’m a prospected adoption parent, who is single (meaning not married). I plan to adopt an infant through the state that I live in (NJ) in a few months, but I’ve been working on this for the past year. I realize that adoption was what I wanted to do, but I would still like to give birth someday, I’m not selfish nor is anyone else, who decide to give birth instead of adopting.
You have to remember that adoption is not for everyone and some people will say things that you may not agree with, they may even question why your doing it. But if you feel strongly about your decision to adopt, do not bring anyone down who does not agree with you, or that has children that they give birth to.
Good luck and I hope it all works out
Many Blessing to you all
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