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He was two months at a shelter, and now over two months in a group home; the doctors are going to recommend RTC for sex offenders. The DHS usually doesn't go against the recommendation.
My wife visited weekly at the shelter, but he repeated that he would kill the little kids for telling, and he would do the abuse again if he came home.
The group home is two hours away, and the RTC will be about six. He was found guilty of sexual abuse, the judge called him a pedophile, but the doctors say he is not 16 so they call it paraphilia. He admits to everything, with no emotion.
The best we can do for him is see that he is placed in the right RTC. He needs to deal with what happened. Parenting from afar is what will happen for the next several months....after that, who knows. We are saving six wonderful children, and trying to do what is best for all seven. He has choices to make; so far he has blown them all. He just doesn't care. We love him; 11 years is a long time to parent a child and lose them.
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