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Not going topoint out the things said about the birthmothers.
I think it would be too painful for other birthmothers to see in black and white the words you have spoken about them in general and specifically about the birthmother who got prognant in order for your to get to be a mother....
Your problems are not because of any protection or love for this child or any future child--your problems are because you were passive with your husband and made choices that are far to difficult for you to live with now....even though you actually knew it before you went forward. This whole mess is because you allowed yourself to make a choice about the life of a baby in order to save your marriage---It never matters how the children come into a marriage---they cannot be the super glue that fixes anything..... Please do not adopt another child if your motivations it to take it and run....If there is a divorce because of this then It was most likely going to happen anyway....children suffer far to much in a divorce.
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