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Originally posted by Snickerdoodle45
~~~This isn't the typical adoption situation because my husband is the biological father and we did a stepparent adoption.
~~~ My husband desperately wanted a blood child so we did not adopt.
~~~... my husband brought up surrogacy and researched it.
~~~ he so much wanted a biological child. I honestly thought he might leave if he didn't get one
~~~my husband told her things like she would always be welcome and come visit anytime she wanted.
~~~I have to look at my daughter whom I love dearly everyday and be reminded of the bond my husband has with another woman.
~~~ My husband sticks up for her and feels sorry for her. He thinks that she and her family should always be allowed to see the child who is now 3.
~~~ I don't think I am being unreasonable but my husband does. We argue about this constantly.
~~~ I have a fear that my husband will have feelings for her although he says he never will.
~~~ My husband wanted to have a sibling for Alexia and wanted to do another surrogacy!
~~~ My husband was born in this country, so the government will allow us to adopt from here. Plus my husband wanted a child from his own heritage. That’s understandable.
~~~ My husband says that it will be good for her and the child to see the baby. I cannot believe this.
~~~ And then he told her (because he speaks the language) that we would let her see the baby. I swear to God I am at my wits end and we will be divorced over this
~~~How do I get my husband to see things from my perspective
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Your husband seems to be caring about all the women and children involved in making it possible for him to be a father.