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Originally posted by Snickerdoodle45
~~~ I am only doing this for the good of my daughter.
~~~So at 46 we became parents and the girl handed the child over with no problem.
~~~ She walked in and the baby was all smiles.
~~~and the baby wants her.
~~~ the child who is now 3.
~~~I want the baby to bond with me and only me and I think she will interfere with it.
~~~ but I don’t want her to interfere with our bonding.
~~~Once my daughter is 21, she can have all the time she wants with her.
~~~... but my child needs to understand that I am her only mother and not her.
~~~the truth and it doesn’t help that she wants to come over and see the child.
~~~ We will tell her the truth one day when she is ready. For now, this is better that no one knows.
~~~ but things have changed and it's for the best.
~~~... wanted to have a sibling for Alexia
~~~Plus my husband wanted a child from his own heritage. That’s understandable.
~~~My husband says that it will be good for her and the child to see the baby. I cannot believe this.
~~~ let her see the baby.
~~~get the baby and get out of here!
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You child and your future child --I am not seeing in what you wrote where there is any harm to either child from the openess that there could be with adoption?