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Originally posted by Dcj
I am hardly offended by anyone elses comments, because they are all opinions. When you look for support it is hard when someone comes in with what you do not what to hear. And it is agrivating when someone is on another topic or mentions something that has nothing to do with what typed of answers you need.

It's important to be clear and consistent about what you're asking for. The title of your post:

Do we have a chance at adoption?

It seems like you were asking for feedback. If you just want people to say, "Yes, great, everything sounds wonderful.", then you're not asking for support, but just for people to agree with you. Support is helping someone see different sides of the equation and honestly answering the question.
Since you're up on all it takes to be a mother, you realize how important good, healthy communication is. Good luck to you.