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I am hardly offended by anyone elses comments, because they are all opinions. When you look for support it is hard when someone comes in with what you do not what to hear. And it is agrivating when someone is on another topic or mentions something that has nothing to do with what typed of answers you need. We did our research were excepted and had options open to our situation, at the time it only came down to the birth mother.
But , as you know, we have changed the direction in which we want to adopt. We are adopting from Ethiopia and have already began our paper work and homestudy. We see much more of a need in international adoption. But were concerned about money, until we found a program that works for us.
As for my husband and I , I do hope that we do not go through a long relationship like that and brake it off. (no offense, is intended). I can not imagine that pain. I believe strongly in marriage, my parents are still together, and I am very grateful.
I wish you the best in being a mother. However people come to adoption, they should know it is worth it for that child. You do not have to be rich, young, or even unable to bare children (in my case) you just need to want to give a child love and a place to call their own. Wish you the best. -Dani
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