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replying to unsure mom
You need to decide what you think is best for your unborn child.Adoption is not for everyone.I am on the other side of adoption -we want to adopt.I know the thousands of couples out there looking to adopt and I know the wonderful homes and the abundance of love and stability that can be given to your child.The most important decision however needs to come from you.I strongly advise you to truely make sure adoption is what you want you never want to regret giving your baby up.Whatever you decide know that you will be giving your baby the most precious gift ever and that is the gift of life!! Not enough people give biological parents credit for giving up a child that choice must be the biggest most courageous gift of love--Its a lot different now a days you even have the choice to pick out the adoptive parents.You can have an open or closed adoption.You need to pick a couple who would respect your wishes for your unborn child.I am sure you will easily find a couple that you will become instantly sure they will be the right ones if you decide to give your child up.The mixed feelings of adoption from your post leads me to really ask are you sure you want to give your baby up? What about the biological dad? You need to look at all the options then decide.God Bless you and your decision.
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