[seashel]

We have had 2 fd's who are siblings since feb. They are 4 and 2. The 4 yr old has RAD the 2 yr old does not. Is it okay to parenting them differently? We have been reading and using the techniques from Nancy Thomas's book "When Love is Not Enough". I am worried that our 4 yr old fd will think that we are not being fair. Any help or advise would really be appreciated.