XOXOKiyaXOXO:
Do you wish your adoption process was seperate from family and personal life? I'm just trying to understand where your coming from. I understand that so many people are connected someway in this adoption. Maybe it's a good thing? Anyways you are just starting to go through this long journey. I think you have a very open adoption if the aparents are inviting you to there new house for 1/2 nights. Not many aparents do this. They must have a really BIG heart and know that this is a really hard situation that you are going thru. They probably know that you will cherish this memory forever. Hopefully there's more great memories to come in the future. It will suck that they can't live in same state anymore. I understand your scared of the adoption closing on aparents part, but if both of keep your ends of the agreement up then I don't think you should worry. You still are too early into the adoption and it's very natural to think the worst. My advice to give is to have communication and honesty-no matter what. You chose open adoption. You will have your birthdaughter in your life ( a relationship) and she will know who you are and how much love you have for her. It will take work from both sides but it's all for this little angel. My thoughts and prayers are w/you tomorrow. It was a REALLY BAD day for me. Good luck w/everything!!!!!!
DEBRA