|
Unselfishness is the key!
Roche,
You make such a great point about the choice a birth parnet makes to give up here child because they can't provide for them. To give them a better life. My birth mom stated in my non-indentfying information that she would have liked to keep me but since the Dad wanted to fininsh college this wasn't possable. She was thinking of the best interest of me. In those days a single mom was not as common as today. So I always felt special to be adopted and not aported(even though aportion wasn't legal, it still happen)And since have had a child or my own, a girl she's 13 years old , and mixed mexican and causasian(i'm causaian) But do you know who she looks like! She looks exactly like me dispite her father's dark skin and hair, eyes. Wow did that make me think even more about my birth parnets and what they look like. Yes I'm going off the track of conversationa bit, then I first started../Sorry.
Well to get back , yes I felt special being adopted but a part of me felt void also because of this...Do all adopptee's feel that way? ...Thanks for listening all!...Kathi
|