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There are a lot of good points on here
First off I do not think you are a bad mother. It is totally understandable for you to want your family to blend. Adopting outside your race is not for everyone. I think you have to think of the child. Will he feel comforitable, at home, part of the family?? I'm sure any child that you would adopt would. I know outsiders can be very judgemental but you don't need their opinions anyway. There will always be someone out there that disagrees with you. Ask yourself this.....If there was not a child to blend with your current family but there was a AA or biracial child that needed a home....Would you reconsider? Just asking... Good Luck!!
Lisa
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