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I have friends of mine who adopted specically AA....5 kids to be exact...godbless them...lol
but they say..."well, we never have to explain to anyone that they are adopted, they just know....."
that the feeling they have, are they wrong also for not wanting CC?
but again, i dont think its wrong to decide the race, sex of your child that you are going to adopt.
its interesting, no one is saying anything about her wanting to adopt a boy. but it seems no has an issue with her not wanting a girl.
people adopt for different reasons....some adopt to create a family, some adopt to help special needs kids to have a family they can call their own, blah blah blah.....people get into this for many different reasons.
hey, there are some parents out there that specify they dont want kids with mental illness, some dont want infants, some dont want downs, some dont want FAS, some dont want CC, some dont want AA, some dont want older, some dont want younger......you get my drift
c'mon, this really isnt a debate. Its a family looking to adopt a child, and have specifics on what kind of child they are looking for.
Most parents do when they go into adoption....
actually, most social workers will talk to you if you say "ill take any child, i dont care"....this hardly ever happens, maybe at the begining stages but when time comes....then some parents start getting specific.
dadfor2
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