Coming from being 'in their shoes', I think it would be really good to hear from you that you love all of them no matter what their marital status or what happens to them. You have the same interest at heart as they do: that M will the loving parents and happy life that she does, whether her parents live together or not.
As an aparent, I do feel the pressure at times to be 'perfect', to have no problems, no stresses, a rock-solid loving textbook marriage, etc. especially when it comes to Ryan's bfamily.
Fortunately, they live in a world that's real and also understand when things change and aren't as we thought they'd be when Ryan came.
IMHO.
Regina, AMom to Ryan Joshua Thomas
