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no, nothing to feel bad about at all.
alot of parents adopt children that would feel like they fit into the family for whatever reason.
when we talked about adoption, we didnt care what the child looked like as we began discussing it.
as time went on, we felt more comfortable with cc child because we were.
Plus we felt the child would have other issues, we adopted older kids from foster care, and adding on that they didnt look like us at all might be another issue they would have to deal with.
we also decided we wanted a boy then a girl.....which i dont think was wrong either.
you will be asked exactly what you are looking for...be honest, it doenst make you a bad mother at all it just helps the social workers have an idea on what your family is looking for.
dadfor2
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