We are in the process now for our license. We have a bio Daughter, age 5. She is getting ready for school this fall. I have read alot about birth order and we have decided to leave her as the oldest and only take girls younger. We have involved her as much as possible with the decision of age and gender and she said she really wants to help aa little girl. We feel including her as much as we can will help with the home change that is coming.
We feel it could take a while with being placed with someone by being so restrictive on our desires, but we need to make sure the whole environment is at its best, so we can help the transition be as smooth as possible.
I think rushing into it could be the worst thing for everyone.
Good luck to all.
Remember there is no "I cant' only "How can I"
