i just had a baby 2 days ago and i chose open adoption. i am only 15, im not with the birth father, and there is almost no money for my family now. i know i could have raised her, but i think that if i were her and found out that i could have had a great life with lots of money and a great mom AND a great dad, i think i would be a little upset that my mom chose to be selfish. im not going to lie, its going to be the hardest thing that you have probaly ever done. just think of the life that the baby could have compaired to the life that you would be able to give it. thats wut is helping me.
i am sure that you would be able to give her a greart life! but you still have a life to live and stuff too, and the baby will make someone else so much happier. everything will turn out just fine.
