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One of the most difficult aspects to adopting (and taking responsibility for) a child is to learn about all the negatives as well as positives. Do take the class and don't quit in the middle - see it through to the end - the first class or two may be scary - there are many children awaiting adoption who need homes and love - needs go from simple to very severe - once you get to the end of the class you'll be amazed at the information you have received from the social workers, training personnel and most of all families who have previously adopted - you can do it - you just have to find the "niche" that will work best for you, your family and your home! This class should also be designed for you to get your foster care license at the same time - you may wish to try that first - it teaches you alot about your strengths and weaknesses and may even direct you toward the child awaiting you ... who is not yet available for some reason or another but will be when the time is right.

Don't every apologize for fears or thoughts - sharing them really does help - we are experienced adoptive parents but just watching, reading and learning about adoption from all the information becoming available like this forum continues to help us with each day and some thoughts/things we may face now or in the future.