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Yes we had birthmom come stay with us. We may have been a little selfish, but it was mainly to keep people from filling her mind with stuff.

It's a LOT selfish. A mother keeping her child is not a bad thing. If she was at all waivering, you probably made her feel obligated to you by taking care of her. That's disgusting.

Anyway, it worked well because I got to feel like Kenlie was mine already.

She wasn't your's. She was not your's until your adoption was final.


I was the one who paid the dr's and took her and fed her. I took the birthmom out for those late night cravings.

She was not a birthmom. She was an expectant mom. She did not become a birthmom until she gave birth, and relinquished her parental rights.


I agree with Kathyborn 100%. Well said!
Aimee