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francie169,
I am a birth mom that found out after reunion that my son's adoptive parents divorced when he was only 8 years old.
I was a little disappointed that he didn't get the benefit of a traditional home life and more financial stability. In the long run it wasn't nearly as important as finding out what a warm loving home his adoptive mother actually did provide.
Life comes with no guarantees. I believe his parents also adopted in hopes of saving a sinking marriage. People have babies for that same wrong reason, though.
I certainly would not be angry with someone who chose to raise my son as a single parent in a happy home instead of one with two parents no longer capable of showing love to each other (or worse).
Trish
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