[LegallyKim]

Thanks for everyone's replies. Of course being divorced and raising children isn't the end of the world, everyone gets by. But honestly I did want the best home possible for my little one. There is nothing that I can do about the fact that his aparents divorced, and it was probably best for everyone in that family, but I'm still disappointed. I'm not angry or bitter, just disappointed. I would never have expected his aparents to consider me or what I wanted for him when making the decision to divorce or not and I would have been shocked if they stayed together because "that's what the birthmother wanted". I also would never say anything to my child about being disappointed. But I would say that to you all to see if anyone else feels similarly, or completely opposite like Missy, although if I had found out there had been abuse, I would have been extremely upset.

Thanks for sharing!