[cfisher23]

Thanks for all the kind words everyone, this is probably the most exciting time in life, ranks right up there with my marriage.

Kindreds - We have already worked on many of the things you have listed. We are both very open and honest, and kind of blunt perhaps those are inherited traits? I think things will go smoothly if we continue working on the same path we currently are. We both have a lot going on.

Just to add some insight, I am not a person typical of my age. I have lived on my own since I was 19, and I have worked in the professional (Information Technology) world since age 16. I am married (for 4 years) with a 15 year old step-son and I have a 5 year old son of my own. I think having the life I do, as opposed to the typical 24/25 year old, has better prepared me for this. I understand what it is like to have a family of your own, and how hard it is to find time - even for important things like this.

While I'm sure I'll hit some of the pitfalls mentioned I do hope that with the insight you have all added and the continuing advise this forum provides my reunion will be a solid success. I am still blown away by the fact that everyone in her life has always known about me, and she has celebrated my birthday every year ..... I can't wait until Sunday when I get to see her for the first time ...