I am not a adoptee, but we are wanting to adopt. I have to agree with mcraejl about open adoption. That is the way my husband and I are wanting to go. I feel like the bparents need to know where that child is. The only time we think a bparent should not know is if it is in foster care. We look at it this way if the ** and bf (if involve) decided to put their infant up for adoption at least they are not taking a life away from a infant. Life is so precious. There are to many people out here wanting children that can't have children. Look at it this way you are giving that adoptive family a chance at raising your child. I think adoption is a wonderful thing.
