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Thanks for the information from both of you. It was helpful.
Please note that I didn't mean to convey that adopting a child would be a rescue mission or a charity task for me and my husband.
I have it in my heart, mind etc...I feel it everday that this is something I should do. I don't feel it to be a rescue mission, I look at my situation of not being able to concieve a sign that I am needed this way instead of the way the majority of women become a mother. I certainly have gone through the phase that possibly not everyone is meant to mother and that is why I have not concieved but my heart tells me that I am suppose to be a mother this way......does that help you understand where I am coming from.
Chosing to adopt is not an easy decision, I grew up with two girls that were adopted and they were hell on wheels and hated their adopted mothers and then I read somethings on this site and it just wore me out a little.
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