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Thanks so much for this!
I've really come to the conclusion that adoption is the best thing for my little girl. I know it is going to be the hardest thing I will ever do but I don't care what I feel as long as she has a good life.
I met with the family that is adopting her and I really like them. I can't believe how great they are. The cutest part about them is how much they love their other adopted son. I really feel that she will have such a wonderful family.
The thing about them that comforts me the most is the fact that they really want me to be comfortable. It's like they are leaving everything up to me. I am thinking that I will want to see her within a month of her being born, about six months later, and possibly a couple other times before she turns a year old. I'm sure the visits will lesson as time passes and if it ever seems that visits are a problem (for her) I will have to stop them. The cool thing about this family is that they send pics all the time! I know this because I talked to the other birthmom of their son. She told me that they don't only send pics on birthdays and holidays such as Christmas or Thanksgiving; they send pictures for Easter, Valentines Day, Halloween, and they even send her Mother's Day cards! That made me feel soooooooo much better! I really like them and I totally feel that I can be close to them and trust them.
Anyway, I would totally love to keep in touch with you. Maybe we can email or something? Let me know!
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