Confused and angry ( adoptee)
Hi everybody. Just recently found this forum. I am adoptee, 43 year old. I was born ( and adopted) in Ukraine, Lvov. In 1998 i have moved to Canada with my family. My foster parents moved to Israel. Last year ,when visiting me in canada and after very angryand ugly fight my mother suddenly told me, that I am an adoptee. She was very angry with me ( we have love/hate relationship forever) and she blurted. I was stunned, angry, furious with her for keeping all that information for herself for so long and so on. I did not believed her at first, but after 2 days my dad confirmed. So I have minimum information about my birth mother, only that she was unmarried 16 year old. I had no name, no place to write. I hate live in limbo and I have no idea where to start. Considering that I have no relatives living in Ukraine or Russia I would like to know if there some international agency that can help me. Or should I just give up. Travelling to Ukraine in the near future is out of questions for me . Any advice would be really appreciated.
Confused and depressed
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