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my family is nervous for us to foster to adopt
My husband and I have decided to start the road of foster parenting in the hopes of an adoption. I have gone through 4years of infertily and we have decided to adopt yet, we do not want to go into major debt by going through international adoption.
We have one daughter who is 5 from his previous marriage. Her bio mother hasn't seen her in three years and she only knows me as mommy.
We feel that this is the best move for us. I have wanted a baby for as long and yet we have finally gotten out of debt with the excpetion of our morgtage. We want to give things the both our children and feel that going into debt isn't the way to go for us.
Both of our parents are not really supportive in this move. We both have a lot of questions ourselves but thought that our parents would be more understanding, an happy for us! I think that this will be a rocky road with parental support, but with out it???
Has anyone else had this problem? What did you do???
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