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Bummeddad,
No one was trying to flame you....you have to understand that we take incest and/or sexual abuse very serious, some of us have lived this, some have adopted kids who have lived this, etc. This was not an affair. It was hard I think for some of us reading your 1st post, because we might have been thinking, "Boy if this were me".... because the 1st post was strange, not alot of information, naturally are backs went up....There are alot of caring people on this forum, that's why you got posts, because they care. It's good you are getting counceling, and the other children to. He (the18 yr old) needs to have counceling also...because yes Woody might have done it, but somewhere on some level your son must know this is wrong, and your wife is just wrong & sick. Agree with some of the other posts, go to the state police or higher if you have to, he's your son. Keep posting, there alot of help on this threads!!!