[mykidsmom1]

Though I am and very concerned about this situation, I can understand the responses that you have received from your first post. We as parents do whatever it takes to protect our children. When they have been wronged by anyone, we come to their rescue. Your wording in your post did send off some flags. Your wife and your son are not having an affair. Your wife has been molesting your son. Whether or not he believes that he is in love with his mother or not is beside the point this behavior on your wife’s part is not expectable. Who cares if she is not willing to talk to authorities, make them talk to her. Have her locked up! I wonder if you would react differently if your son was 10 years old instead of 18 years old. If it were the other way around you would be someone’s pin pal behind bars. Also, you asked if anyone has heard this kind of thing before. Of course we have all heard of this happening! But no one is interested in holding a forum to say where, when and how we have heard about it. What kind of answer did you really want for that question? What you should have asked was…since my wife has been locked up, how does my family start to heal? How do I let my son know that I am not angry with him and it is not his fault and I still love him? How can I keep my ex-wife from having any further contact with our children? These are meaningful questions that I am sure we can constructively comment on. I wish your family well because there is a lot of healing that needs to take place. The first thing is for you to realize is the difference between an affair and child molestation.

I am truly….

Mykidsmom1