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Hi Nicole,
I never really gave that much thought because I was told back then that if the birht mother left a note or letter in the file that contact would be welcome, that the agency had to release it upon request. There are several letters waiting for my son and I know for a fact he has been in that office seeking information before going to college. Now it makes me wonder if he was even told there were letters for him. Its so hard to trust these agencys at this time for me. I know there was a photo left there for me and the agency lost it before it got mailed to me. I recently sent a letter to his adoptive mom, thanking her for loving like I would, caring for him and asked if she would consider parting with another photo just so I could have it to love and hold. I am afraid of how much to search in fear he doesn't want to be found by me......I don't want to interfere in his life, or interrupt it. I want him to read my letters and make the choice. Right now, just having a picture to hold onto, or just knowing that he wasn't a part of 9-11 would make me feel better.
What hospital were you born in? I lived near Syracuse most of my life. Do you know what agency was used? Just curious. The agency that handled mine, had a person that was allowed to look into sealed records.
Pat
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