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Hope it all goes well - sounds like you've got the right attitude to the whole thing.
I wdn't listen to non-adoptees - they don't always understand the reasons for searching in the first place. A v good friend of mine asked me when I told him that I wanted to search "Why" - I explained and he said "but you are who you are" - fair point but it doesn't stop the missing pieces in the puzzle being missing - I've always felt that it's like having a jigsaw puzzle where you can tell what the picture is but some of the pieces are missing - and you'd like to complete the picture.
Anyway, hope it goes well (I recently met my bmum for the first time - she came to stay at my house for a couple of days - it went v well) and it would be great to see a post here letting us know how it went
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