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I became very close to my fs bio's, I always bit my tounge when she would say cutting remarks to me. I would try to have her play the mother role when we where both around baby J. Even though she wanted me to change his diapers cause he fusses when she changes him. She exposed him to Meth ect.. (who knows what else) He can through a fit up to 2hrs I saw both bio's had a extremaly hard time handling that. So I became very close to them and devopled trust between us. When home visits started again for the second time to return him home. I would hang out for a bit feel things out andit was so hard leaving him screaming knowing how hard it was for them in the office where they had help but to be alone with him for hours. She started saying wierd things like she wont spank this one cause when she starts she cant stop, Ok did I mention he is a meth baby. ANyways I wrote every thing down I called the caseworker every visit it seem reporting. My husband and I smelt achol on one of the breaths and evenataly he was caught relasping. I feel like DHS are very busy and we as foster parents wear many different hats, maybe PI being one, but really I just didnt want him to slip through any cracks, If he gets to live with us or somone else I just want him to be safe and happy and have to oppratinaty to grow up and make better choices in life.
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Redangel
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