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I agree with Anna on this one. The people that work with these kids know what would be the best situation for these children. They are looking out for the child as well as you and your children.
Even though we have said we would like to adopt a child 0-7. We have been told it would be better for everyone involved if we didn't go that close to our oldest age, he is 8. They said we would do better 0-5. So, our wait will be longer. They have also said that if a 6 or 7 year old comes up that they don't believe would be a threat to my oldest we could eb considered.
There's alot at stake and they don't want the child to be hurt anymore than the already have been.
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Mom to 2 bio sons (11&7) and a 6yr old girl by adoption, home 4-ever on 7/3/04!! 
Dreams do come true!!
"I have nothing to fear, and here my story ends.
My troubles are all over,and I am at home"
From Black Beauty by Anna Sewell
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