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If your husband is still enjoying his "independence," then it sounds to me, that he`s not ready for a child. Once, you have a child, there is not much "independence" left for yourself. your child, pretty much takes up alot of that.

That`s wonderful, to think that you have not been diagnosed infertile, but yet, your interested in adoption. Sounds to me, that you have plenty of time, to relax, enjoy your time w/ your husband, and yes. I do believe that you are old enough to make your own decision`s, about wanting to adopt, someday. Good Luck.