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Remember every state is different as well. I have heard some states only do agency adoptions. We are working with a non-profit agency and I don't feel they are pressuring anyone. We can do a bit of search on our own, and they are there for both birthparent and adoptive parent support. What impressed us was during the orientation forums, they actually had birthmoms and their adoptive parents come speak. It was great to get the perspective these women had about adoption. They both were in very open adoptions.
Find the best situation for yourself and take it slowly. I believe in the end it make for a better situation. For all of us adoptive parents there is a right place to be.
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