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"My son has a wonderful Amom - I wouldn't trade her for the world. (Sorry Melissa). I am also certain that he has had just about anything materially that he could have ever wanted or needed. But his parents are divorced. Not the end of the world but still disappointing. Also, I'm not sure about Adad's morals - it sounds like he has been in some things I would not want any child of mine exposed to.
My daughter had some problems that I was not only disappointed at but horrified by. She was sexually abused by her a-moms 2nd husband after her a-dad died. Aside from that, I have no complaints. Her life wasn't perfect but who's is?
Please don't get offended but IMO, the fact that they are divorced shouldn't be an issue. Divorced people can and do sucessfully parent kids; and as far as the A-dads morals go, only God can judge him. If the shoe were on the other foot how would your life stand up under a close scrunity? If he didn't neglect or abuse your son then nothing else should matter.
You haven't disclosed what about his life disturbs you, and you shouldn't, but IMO just because a person is less than perfect doesn't make them a bad parent and that was my only concern...she needed love, not perfection.>>>>MissyM
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Last edited by Missy M : 02-26-2004 at 07:04 PM.
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