Lisbeth.....You are on a journey of making the hardest decision of your life!!! I have been where you are today, although it was 20 years ago, being a bmom is still very much a part of who I am. You have received some very good advice here from the others. I just wanted to say please go with what your head and heart tell you to do!!!! I was
VERY sure that I must chose adoption for my baby. I was sixteen, unemployed, unmarried, and my parents were going through a divorce. I knew that I wanted more for my baby beyond a shadow of a doubt!!! You must be sure you want to place your child before choosing adoption. You must consider parenting and all the options you have before making the decision to place your baby. Adoption can be a good thing when it is in the best interest of the child. I always suggest writing a pros and cons list so that you can see
All Of Your Options in writing. Sometimes it makes that choice seem so much clearer!!!
I truly wish you all the best......You will be in my thoughts and Prayers as you make your decision!!!!
Staci
