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Old 02-23-2004, 07:44 AM
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Ress...

Now that is some level-headed thinking, and very very good points! Eury, I strongly encourage you to read and think about what Ress has to say! She's right about your place in your baby's life after you give her up - there isn't much of one. That's the whole point of adoption - someone else becomes that child's mother and father. And think of how confusing it would be for the child - that's why I stay away from my daughter's family - not only does it stress the parents out when the b-mother is around (and it does, whether they tell you it's okay or not) but that stress and worry is sensed by the kid. And how good is that for the emotional well-being of your child? Way to go, Ress!
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