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a woman who puts her child up for adoption is the most unselfish act i can think of. To put the childs needs before her own.
I cant imagine the agony and the pain that a woman has to go through to led her up to that decision.
barbaric, i dont think so.
on another side:
I think about my childs birthmom, she was mentally ill, abused my children on numerous occasions. My children has paid a huge price due to it.
but i still do have empathy for her. She was mentally ill. She couldnt help it, Im sure she loved her children, but just was uncapable of taking care of them.
I hope as my children get older, and their birthmom gets the help she needs, that i will help them find her. and i will be there to comfort them if the reunion doesnt go great, and i will rejoice with them, if it goes great.
dadfor2
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