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We were a military family as well when we adopted Ryan (DH is now retired military). Here are some of the things we did:

1. Asked friends and family to give us contributions to our 'baby fund' in lieu of gifts at Christmas and birthdays. Got lots of outright contributions from them as they all wanted us to be parents.

2. Had garage sales and told everyone who came that we were raising funds for an adoption. Got lots of 'keep the change' and a few outright contributions.

3. Sold stuff on eBay and put in the listing that we were raising funds.

4. Looked at our budget and 'cut' a few things out - trips, eating at expensive restaurants, etc.

5. We've heard of others who've made money through homeshows like Homemade Gourmet, Pampered Chef, Mary Kay, etc. Have to get the distributor to give you $$ though instead of discounts, etc.

Also have heard of people holding spaghetti dinners, car washes, etc. with friends to raise money.

Our total expenses were $14K, though we didn't pay that out all at once - biggest check was $2300 to an attorney for finalization. You may also be able to get a $2000 reimbursement from the military post finalization.

HTH, best of luck,

Regina, AMom to Ryan Joshua Thomas