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Wow--how interesting it is from one state to the next! In Oregon if you plan to adopt you do not 'get' to meet the children until you have been selected as the 'forever' parents and waited for 7-days for appeals of the decision to be made! Then you have to be ready to take them sight unseen!
How interesting it is that in your state the children would be put into this situation? I am not so sure I really like this way of doing things. I am guessing the sibling group must have been old enough to have a vote in how things worked.
For families like yours this must be very painful and difficult I know how easy it was to fall in love with a picture I cannot imagine how hard it is to meet them.
Don't give up even under these most stressful circumstances.
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