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My husband is 40, he has never wanted to search for his bfamily. Well his siblings he has mentioned wanting to find, but he and his brothers were taken from an abusive home according to court documents, but his adoptive home was no better, Would finding his BParents do any good? He has alot fo anger, I think after 35 years people change. he is a good man, He got those traits from someone, I blieve they are inherited not taught, He also has 2 children that he has nothing to do with. one child he adores, and keeps contact with, I keep telling him one day those kids may come looking for him, I was lucky in a sense, I know my relatives, and I am learning alot about people doing this for him. To me it doesnt matter what your reason's are, YOur not betraying your adopted family by searching for your roots, its all natural. People need to know where they came from. And sometimes, Need to know why they are like they are.
My husband used to be a Biker, Rough, always in trouble with the law, he is a Georgous human being, to me as gentle as a lamb, it took alot of Love to calm him down, I am hoping that when and if he ever meets his BParents or BMother he will feel diffently about tehm. He talks of his BMOther alot, thats why I know he would love to meet her. He knows alittle, well Thats our reason for searching, we all have one, If you even think about it one time, than just do it, its your life, make it complete.
Good Luck to eveyone.
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