[Angelwings2002]

Help me ...
There was no offence taken ..really there wasn't. I don't know IF the other birthmother's did or not but when I placed my daughter I signed a "waiver of confidentiality form". Giving the social service the right to give my daughter if she ever came looking any and ALL info to find me. I knew when I placed I wouldn't want to ever NOT be found. So I took the opportunity to make myself available to her if that scenario ever arose.

Times have changed so much and so has the adoption world what we all thought would never be is now in fact a reality. The Birthmothers from ages past wish we had the options that the new age Birthmothers do...open and honest placements.. there are not too many "secret adoptions" anymore. I am glad the adoption options have moved forward...even though there are still alot of other "issues" that need to be addressed not only for the Birthmothers BUT the Adoptees also. The government needs to stop telling ADULT adoptees what they are/are not entitled to as far as I am concerned....oh there is the bewildered adoptee comming out of me..lol ..Once again ...No Offence was taken by myself and I am sure non of the other Birthmothers took it offensive either.
Good luck in your search..