[helpme0768]

Iam in search of birth faimly and in searching you read a lott of storys about people looking for their bio-familys.I never realized how many lost people was out there until i started my search.What I have come to realized after reading several threads is just how much power a birth mother has.Iam not putting birth mothers down by no means because their options were slim but when you seal the birth records you have not just seald yourself from that child but you sealed all other birth relatives also.Brothers,sisters,grandmothers,grandfathers,au nts,uncles,cousions,ext...I understand when you are adopted you then have anew family but its just not the same.In the back of your mind your always woundering who do i look like?who do i act like?Where did i get this crazy habit from?Questions that will haunt you for the rest of your life.This is a big world to be lost in.I just think it ought to be harder for a mother to seal the birth records,Just as hard as it is for us adopted people to unseal the records.Thanks for listening and i would love to hear your opinions.