[lucyjoy]

I never said any of those things about you nor did I tell anyone not to adopt. I was accussed of that and many other things and yes I should have completely ignored the pms and all the other things that person said to me, but I didn't. I have said that sometimes siblings should be split to heal the children. I deleted the posts because the other party asked me to-I noticed he was quick to delete all the really nasty things he said to me.