Lucyjoy'

Keep posting. Your experiance is clearly huge and that alone should garner respect. Your direct, you have to be with the population you are dealing with. My kids don't have a minsculeamt of the problems yours do but I do learn because you usually dish out good ole common sense that do apply to ALL kids. Sometime I may get caught in the trap..."oh...that won't happen to me" and need a kick in the butt...don't ever relax with teens...and you make me aware of that.Thank you

Also, there may be some posters that don't agree, or it really may not apply to them...but there may be 10 lurking that are listening!

Donna