[Jeager]

My husband is adopted and was able to meet his birth mother in 1998. The birth mother has told my husband over and over again that she would tell her husband and children (all adults) about my husband. Unfortunately, this has not occured and my husband is very dissappointed as he was very excited at the possibility of meeting his sibilings. Do you think he should just make contact with his siblings and let the cat out of the bag or move on with his life?

His birth mother calls at least once a month and dangles the carrot each time they talk. She always says, well I'm going to tell the family and she never does. As you can imagine, my husband's hopes of meeting his siblings are shattered on a regular basis.

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